Question: A quick kink question on Watersports

Hello Mistress Sharina,
Of late my interest in watersports has been growing and I've been wondering about something that I'd value your opinion on:
Which is hotter for you: A sub that allows the Mistress to pee all over him--but acts clearly unhappy about it or a sub that acts like it is the best thing that ever happened?

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Answer: There are no "quick questions" for me, but I'll give it a try.

The first time I did a session that included watersports, I thought it was very strange. So my opinion at THAT time would've been very different. Of course it was a request, and a need to fulfill a kink, so it wasn't with someone who didn't want it, therefore, it was consensual, which is a must.

All play should be Safe, Sane and consensual (SSC) so upon negotiating a session with someone, this isn't something I would just throw in the mix especially the first time someone sees me. BUT, I would if they explain they want to push themselves and are open to anything I have in mind with the limits of XYZ. They may want to try it out for the purpose of fulfilling out a fantasy they read about. A certain verbal exchange while administering my piss on the body and not in the mouth is what I'd do to push them towards their edge. But, at the same time, if it were for humiliation purposes, I say he didn't have the guts to even taste a Superior Woman's piss, which would put him in the mindset of utter humiliation. Of course, reading about it and actually experiencing it are TWO very different things. Sometimes we gotta go slow with someone we trust.

For one, if someone asks for a golden shower and has no experience with it, I prepare. I flush with lots of water. So if my subject would like to reach with his tongue for a quick taste, he'll not feel it so overwhelming with the taste and smell of piss that is strong and undiluted. In this way, I love introducing someone to a new and possible addiction whether it's for their own purpose of connection, a kind of ritual and rite of passage, or plain and unadulterated HUMILIATION.

In the case of those more experienced, I remember a slave who was part of 2 and even 3 Mistress sessions, where we would take turns pissing on him. He looked like he hated it. Each Mistress' piss strength was different, but he seemed to react the same way to each of us. At first, I was a bit confused by it, but because he asked for it, I enjoyed it even more. As I pissed into his mouth and all over his body, he got squirmy and his face scrunched up for a wince. Delivering bits here and there, I got to savor the transaction of giving and him forced into receiving. If I didn't know it was consensual and very necessary for his humiliation, I wouldn't have liked it so much AND the energy would have been completely off.

I enjoy it when a submissive drinks as much of my piss as possible. I also like stretching the limits by plugging the tub, running a little warm bath as I add to it with my own elixer of piss. What my slave cannot drink, he ends up bathing in it.

The joy I get from someone loving it or hating it are the same. The important component is it being CONSENSUAL, as all BDSM sessions should be negotiated.

Over the years I've come to really enjoy WATERSPORTS! From the first time to now I put many different spins on this activity.

So in answer to your question, I find the activity itself, very hot. Which one do I like best? In a perfect world, I enjoy the "idea" of non-consent and me forcing him into something he hates. I like edge play. I reach down, slap his wet piss stained face and tell him to drink it! Yeah, the level and exchange of energy there is superior to any other because of the intensity.

M Sharina