To provide a safe, sane and consensual context for BDSM domination & fetish sessions, respecting limits, yet exploring all that is possible.
TO SCHEDULE AN APPOINTMENT WITH ME YOU MUST READ THIS ENTIRE PAGE
AS A PRO DOMME...HERE ARE MY GUIDELINES
DOMINATION IS NOT PROSTITUTION.
I am an experienced Dominatrix that works with novices to very experienced bottoms, slaves, and submissives. As a well-versed, very experienced Mistress, I am open to teaching novices and / or couples how to play safe, sane, and consensually in the privacy of their own domain.
A session will always be negotiated prior to the session taking place, and limits will be discussed as well as respected.
Safe words are respected and listened to immediately.
Your anonymity will be protected and confidentiality respected.
Unless prior arrangements or consent have been made, I am the only person who will be present during the session.
I take nothing for granted and I ask a lot of questions. I will ask about any medical problems. This includes previous surgery, current medications, back or joint injuries, breathing and circulatory problems or the use of contact lenses.
Cleanliness is next to Godliness...All of my equipment and implements are cleaned prior to it's use on another person and My studio is cleaned thoroughly by My slave once a week. My floors are cleaned by hand, equipment wiped down thoroughly with disinfectant solution, floors vacuumed, mirrors cleaned, surfaces disinfected, wood preservative used on built in shelves and hard wood trim. Bathroom and kitchen is thoroughly cleaned with soft scrub, ammonia and bleach disinfectant.
I use antibacterial soap followed by a 4 way quaternary ammonium disinfectant (capable of destroying all major pathogens including HIV and hepatitis)
I do not use any illegal drugs.
I do not take phone calls during sessions.
TO SCHEDULE AN APPOINTMENT
It is acceptable to contact me through e-mail or by telephone. However, a telephone interview is mandatory for scheduling a first time appointment.
I do not accept phone calls from blocked, private, out of area or pay phone numbers. I respect anonymity and will only return your call when a specific time is mentioned. If by chance I contact someone other than you or a female voice answers, I always confirm the number again interchanging the last four digits so it appears I have called the wrong number. When I leave a message on your voice mail, I never leave My name unless I know it is okay to do so, then the message can be explained as a wrong number.
In contacting me by phone, be prepared to tell me what kind of experience you have had so far, if any, and what type of session would interest you. I am also interested in finding out what your limits are and if marks are a consideration. Self described as a nurturing sadist, My way of being can be anything from gentle to intense and can change by any varying degree of mood.
Please note: I do not play with paranoia. Being careful or being safety conscious is one thing, but if you appear overly apprehensive about scheduling an appointment, I will ask you to send a deposit on your appointment before one may be scheduled or I may decline seeing you at all.
I schedule appointments based on My availability as well as every day of the week.
CONTACT BY E-MAIL
I return e-mails usually within 1 to 3 days. Please be aware, I do not download attachments.
All E-mails need to include:
1) The subject line should read: Inquiry <I delete a lot of mail>
2) Session interest, level of experience/training and ANY health concerns or limitations you may have.
3) Dates you will be in town and preferred appointment times.
4) Include your phone number as well as the best time to return your call and please include alternative times.
5) A first name.
I will answer letters that are sincere and contain information requested. I will answer additional questions you may have and tribute inquiries by phone only. A phone interview is necessary in scheduling an appointment with me.
CONTACT BY PHONE
I return phone calls as My time and schedule will allow. Be assured that I will contact you as soon as I am able.
I rarely answer My phone and believe that if you are serious, you will leave a message. When you leave your message, include your name, phone number with area code, and the best time/alternative times to return your call. Please speak clearly.
Have a pen and paper ready when you call.
NOVICES AND FIRST TIME APPOINTMENTS:
As a novice or your first time appointment with Me, you MUST schedule your appointment in advance.
If the date and/or time is booked, I will take your name and number and contact you if there is a cancellation or the schedule can be moved around. I will try to accommodate schedules as best as possible. Advance contact is the best way to get your desired appointment time and date.
Couples or Transgendered
I have seen MANY couples over the years and have co-created sessions that were planned for special occasions, surprises, experienced to novice players. One or both persons are played with...whatever your fantasy is, I love creating scenarios that explore, and affect intimacy for you as a couple if this is what you desire. I have enjoyed sessions with transgendered people, (m to f or f to m) pre and post op transexuals, 3 men (1 sub, 2 doms) male and female couples, and female groups of dommes, subs, lesbian or bi.
CONFIRMING YOUR APPOINTMENT
Once your appointment is scheduled, you are REQUIRED to confirm your appointment on the day of your appointment. Please leave your confirmation on My voice mail so I will know you will arrive at your scheduled appointment time.
Be on time for your appointment. This means not a moment too soon and not a moment late. <SHARP> I realize that there are considerations to being late, and I ask that you be respectful of my time as I will be with yours. This does not mean to be early for your appointment. Preparing for a session is important to me and I prefer not to be rushed or distracted.
Please arrive freshly groomed, well rested and nourished and do not wear cologne or perfume. My shower is available to you at the beginning of your session as well as at the end. I strongly suggest the genitals be shaved and/or trimmed. Shaving the hair on the pubic bone is not necessary and may be trimmed.
I appreciate the time taken when you properly present yourself to Me.
Respectful etiquette towards your Mistress is essential. Take nothing for granted.
I deal with D/s <domination/submission> and the S/m <sadomasochism> arts. I AM NOT AN ESCORT.
DOMINATION IS NOT PROSTITUTION.
I session in fetish attire always.
Shoes off before walking into the studio space.
In using the toilet, close the lid and seat.
Used towels and wash cloths are left in the bathroom after use.
Turn off your mobile phone or pager. <Unless you would like to answer it while you are in a precarious position...>
Wait for my instructions and our session will begin.
TABOO / NO INTEREST
Oral Sex (Body Worship)
Brown or Roman showers (But, I will discuss them in a scene)
Public/Visual Kidnap Scenes
Changing of Soiled Diapers
Real Life Blackmail Scenarios
I play with those who are not intoxicated or under the influence of drugs.
I do not engage in E-mail Domination
Clients must be over the age of 21 with proof of ID
TOPPING FROM THE BOTTOM:
Sessions are always negotiated before the session begins, so I understand what kinds of play you are open to, therefore, when a person orchestrates/dictates the scene WHILE I am playing with them, it is disrespectful to your Mistress or Sir. (If you are still confused, it's as if you see your Mistress as a puppet.) I respect safewords immediately, so if you need to tell Me something, use a safe word or ask if you may make a request. Rapport is very important with Me in a scene and I won't session with someone a second time who tops from the bottom.
MY BDSM INTERESTS/ TYPES OF PLAY
Abrasion / skin sensitization
Age play / Age Roleplay Scenario
Anal Play (dildo play, anal plugs, progressive anal stretch training, anal fisting)
Bastinado (caning the soles of feet)
Blood Sports / Knife Play / Needle Play
Bondage (rope bondage, leather restraints, mummification, straight
jacket bondage, cage, spreader bars)
Boot Boy / Boot Lick / Boot Licking
Boot Fetish / Boot Worship (thigh high vinyl boots, leather boots, latex boots)
Breast Infusion / Saline Breast Infusion
Breath Control (mummification, gas masks, plastic wrap)
Caging (stand up cage, large puppy cage, steel kennel, rolling cage on wheels, )
Caning (bamboo cane, rattan cane, rubber cane, acrylic cane)
Catheter Play (Foley catheter, Texas catheter or Condom catheter, straight catheters)
CBT (cock and ball torture / torment. Including weights, kicking,
stretching, slapping, cock whipping, catheterization, sounds play,
vacuum pumping, cock & ball bondage, clamps)
Chastity training / Orgasm Control (steel chastity cock cage, CB 2000, CB 3000, & the Curve)
Collaring / Slave Collar (worthy slaves collared by the Mistress)
Confinement (caging, prison, detention, isolation, prisoner)
Consensual Power Exchange
Corset Training / Girdle / Waist Cinching / Corset Lacing
Crossdressing / Cross Dressing / Cross-Dressing (Crossdresser / Cross Dresser)
Crushing Foot Crushing / High Heel Crush (objects to destroy)
Dental Exam & Medical Exam
Depilation / Hair Removal / Shaving / Waxing / Tweezing
Discipline & Training
Disorientation through extended domination session
Electricity / Electrical Play (ErosTek, Electro-Stim tens unit, Violet wand ErosTek, electrical cock board, remote control electro-stim, electric fly swatter, electro-snapper, Stun Gun)
Enemas / Enema Play (multiple enemas, therapeutic enema, punishing enema)
Energy Pull (needles & cords)
Equestrian Training / Pony Play
Fetish Party / Eyes Wide Shut Party
Figging / Anal Figging with Ginger
Fire Cupping / Fire Play / Fire Wand
Fisting / Anal Fisting / Vaginal Fisting
Flogging / Cat-o-nine tails / Cat o' nine tails
Foot Worship (heel worship, boot worship, food play, face smothering)
Forced Feminization / Forced Feminizing / Forced Femme
Giantess / Amazon Goddess
Golden Shower / Water Sports (golden cocktail, bath mat or receptacle toilet)
Humiliation / Verbal Humiliation / Degradation Play (physical humiliation, hair pulling, hair shaving, head shaving
pinching, face slapping, spitting, GS golden shower)
Knife Play / Blood Sports
Latex Sensory Deprivation / Rubber Kink
Leg Worship (with or without stockings)
Medical Exam Scene
Mind Fuck / Psychodrama (edge play, roleplaying)
Mummification (saran plastic wrap, bandage, gauze, duct tape, vet wrap)
Nipple Torture (nipple clamps, play piercing, nipple weights, nipple suction, nipple pumping, cupping)
OTK / Over The Knee Spanking
Panty Training / Panty Slut
Percussion Play (single tail whip, razor strap, flogging, caning, paddles, riding crop)
Permanent Piercing Ritual
Piercing / Play Piercing / Needle Play
Piss Play / Golden Showers / Watersports
Psychological Domination / Psycho Drama / Verbal Domination
Puppy Training / Dog Training / Obedience Training / Canine Training
Role Play / Fantasy Role Play Scenarios
Sado Masochist / Sadist / S & M / S&M / Sadism-masochism play
Saline Infusion (scrotal infusion & breast infusion)
Sensory Deprivation (loss of perception with sight, sound & voice)
Shaving / Body Shaving (leg shaving, genital shaving, hair trimming)
Single Tail Whipping / Single Tail / Whipping
Slave Training, slave Contract
Smoking Fetish / Human Ashtray Receptacle / Cigarette Play
Sounds Play (temperature & electrical sounds)
Suspension Bondage / BDSM Suspension Restraint / BDSM Sling Bondage / Inversion Table
Temperature Play / Fire Play / Ice Play / Hot Wax Play (fire wands, fire play, cigarette play, hot wax play,
burning incense play, Tiger Balm, cinnamon, Icy-Hot)
Tickling / Tickle Fetish / Tickle Torture
Trampling (bare foot trampling, high heel trampling, BZ heel trampling, trample table, heel crush, foot crush)
Urethral Play / Sounds Play
Verbal Abuse / Humiliation
Water Sports / Golden Shower / Piss Play / Golden Cocktail / Human Toilet
Wet Sheet Packing
THE INNER CIRCLE
Although not a requirement, if you would like to bring your Mistress something special, I prefer for it to be kept simple.
I LOVE a special champagne. Mumm Napa Cuvee Napa Brut Prestige, Moet & Chandon White Star, Veuve Clicquot NV Brut (Orangish-Yellow Label), Pommery Pop 187ml (four pack with straws), Piper-Heidsieck (Brut), Roederer Estate, and of course I love Dom Perignon.
Red wines warm me...Merlot, Zinfandel, Cabernet. I enjoy trying new ones.
Chardonnay...buttery and golden (nothing sweet).
I ADORE and relish Vivienne Westwood Boudoir in perfume or powder. This is the most extravagant and wonderful gift I could ever receive. The powder is impossible to find! It can only be found online: http://www.escentual.com/vivienne_westwood/boudoir/boudoir05.html or try www.Amazon.com
I adore gift certificates from Victoria Secret (online or stores in Minnesota)
Mr. S Leather or Madame S